- 7 years ago
- Wedding: March 2010
I used to be a member of the site-that-shall-not-be-named on here. I had only posted a few times when I was going through some problems in our relationship and I was eaten up. Girls trying to tell me that I needed to break up with asap, etc.
Last night I was extremely upset about a stupid fight we were having and I had originally posted on here. I didn’t want to mention it agaon so I ended up posting on the other website. It was the worst idea ever.
I had comments from people telling me I needed to leave him now, because we were fighting over ironing. I had some lady look up all other other posts I had written over a year ago and put them on the thread, when added up as someone who didn’t know my Fiance at all, would make him look awful. Obviously, we all go through rough times together, but them trying to tell me he’s abusive and I allow for him to use me like a doormat is enough. Some of the things we went through in the past were issues, but we worked through them, so it’s going to be ok. Counselling is not for us. And until last night it was the first night in a long time we had even argued.
God, some women make me shake my head. Thank goodness for you ladies!