- 10 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
Yikes! Sorry you’re going through this. I don’t have any real advice to add, but I just wanted to say that I don’t think you did anything wrong (by calling a couple of times), and I wouldn’t have cared if my sister called to see if I was pregnant so she could make appropriate wedding arrangements (I know you said this wasn’t your intent by calling, but I think in a normal sibling relationship, your sibling would understand that you need to make plans and you’re not trying to be insensitive). I also agree that your Brother-In-Law was out of line & I would be livid if my fiance talked to my sibling like that. Best of luck sorting all of this out!
ETA: I also would have no problem with my sister being present when I told my parents about a pregnancy. The more the merrier! The only thing I would ask is that she not tell them before me (which you didn’t).