(Closed) Can I plan my own bachelorette party?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
3219 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I think its ok to plan yourself and or bring it up. The only time I would say its not ok is it you were planning this crazy all out expensive party that you want them to pay for. Which it doesnt seem like you want so- Go For It!

Post # 4
204 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I think its ok to ask your girls what the details are of your bacherlorette party if you ask in the right way. Then, you will find out if plans are underway..or not. If no plans are underway, I think its ok to mention that you would really love a bachelorette party..even if its low key and inexpensive girls night.

There is no harm in asking, and once your Bridesmaid or Best Man realize you just want to spend some fun time together, im sure everyone will get on the ball.

I helped plan my own bachelorette party b/c my friends had no idea what I wanted. Once I gave them lots of ideas and feedback, we had a great time planning it all and everyone had a great night. So I dont think being apart of the planning process is bad at all.

Post # 5
153 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I had to pretty much plan my bach party. Most of my bridesmaids live out of town. I did ask for their opinions as to what to do, and just went for the consensus.  It was fun!

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