(Closed) Can I unbridesmaid her?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Can I unbridesmaid her?
    Yes : (3 votes)
    30 %
    No : (7 votes)
    70 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    3182 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I have a general philosophy that my Fiance is the only person whose sex life concerns me.  What my friends do is up to them, and I don’t see it as interfering with our friendship.  

    Post # 4
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    4887 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Is she a good friend to YOU?  Everyone goes a little wild in Vegas, and yeah it sucks that she kissed another dude, but try to remove yourself from that situation.  I have several friends that make HORRIBLE partners but they’re still awesome to me.  I wouldn’t use that to determine their worthiness as a bridesmaid/bridesman/friend.

    Post # 6
    Member
    3148 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    @Natalieh86: I agree, although it’s not what I would want a friend to do, it happens.  I would be REALLY upset if she left me alone both times, at least you had the other friend to spend time with.  Try not to get too caught up in it, your wedding is still a year away and if you do this now – you may not be able to change it again.  Give it some time.  What she did to her bf is something she will have to deal with, even if it’s something you don’t agree with (I don’t either). She obviously doesn’t love her bf, she is perhaps not in the same emotional mature relationship you are (engaged).

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