(Closed) Can I just vent???

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
5956 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

…some people just CANNOT stand to see other people succeed, so they diminish and downplay their victories because their self esteem and self image won’t allow anything else…it’s the earmark of a small and unhappy person..If she won’t congratulate you, I will!

You ROCK! That was amazing….you eat whatever you want because you earned it!

Post # 5
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2023 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Nona99:  This.

Dont let her get you down!

Post # 6
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1227 posts
Bumble bee

Try to ignore her.  People with her body type and metabolism will never understand how hard some of us have to work.  And even though she’s thin, chances are your body looks far better than hers as a result of eating clean and working out.  Even if she’s not jealous of your body (and I think she is), she’s probably jealous of your dedication and willpower to get to where you did.

Post # 7
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3697 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Just brush it off.  I’m guilty of doing that to my skinny friends (bitches.  I kid!).  I don’t mean it – that’s me hating myself for not having the motivation to work out like a crazy psycho.  Good for you, and don’t worry about what anyone else has to say about it.

Post # 8
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872 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@Nona99:  +1 

You should be proud of yourself! You worked your 106lb butt off! 

I’ll be happy if I can weigh 190lbs for my wedding, LOL! 

Congrats for you! You worked hard and you have the pounds lost to prove it. 

I hope you still feel good about yourself, you ate healthy, you worked out regularly, you had the determination, will and dedication it took to lose the weight you wanted for your wedding day. Kudos for you! 

Don’t let her get to you, I know what she said sucks, but keep being proud of yourself! Sometimes the best revenge is ignoring what people say and being completely happy instead. 

Post # 9
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3697 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Huh.  Apparently we’re more sensitive to words that ryhme with itch than it.

‘Till my comment shows up – don’t sweat it. 

Post # 10
Member
1868 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@Nona99:  Exactly!

Is this friend single?

Post # 11
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1399 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@Nona99:  +1. Some people are just super negative. And whatever people say to you, reflects 100% of them (for better or worse). It’s her, not you. Let it go and eat whatever you want :o)

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