(Closed) Can I vent for a second?!

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

This isn’t a bridezilla moment this is a sane moment. These people are straight crazy! Who does this!?!?!

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

LOL I told people that additional guests cost $100 per head and that cash/checks were fine. 

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

This is what happens when people think that the “rules” of weddings aren’t important anymore. Etiquette is always important.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Well I had a lot of people getting around who was invited by “bringing them” when I told my DH’s family who were inviting +6’s that they would be charged accordingly we ended up with significant drops in our RSVP numbers. 

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

just tell people not to come.  how rude are they to take it upon themselves to invite whomever they want to invite.  just plain crazy.

I’m serious about it…. the distant relative, have one of your parents deal with, the others explain you don’t have room for extra guests and that if they can’t come alone, then you’re sorry they can’t celebrate with you.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

NOT bridezilla!!  that’s INSANE!!!!  I cannot believe *actually I can* people do this!  At least they’re giving a heads up… FI’s family would just show up with people.  30% of our engagement party neither one of us knew them!!!  Friends brought their distant family to our e-party!!  SO STRANGE!!!!

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Ahhhh….this makes me nervous for when I send out my invites. That is so so so rude!!!!

Post # 14
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Blushing bee

What the heck is wrong with people!  Call them and say that you have limited seating and like the invitation says, you only have # seats available to them.  The distant relative who wasn’t even invited is a tough one though, not sure how to even begin with that one…seriously, how ridiculous can these people get?!

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I honestly don’t understand why people don’t understand that you can’t bring extra people to a WEDDING. I wouldn’t bring extra people if I was invited to my friend’s house for appetizers & drinks, nevermind a flipping wedding. WTF?

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

Wow. Tell them no! This is ridiculous.

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