(Closed) Can I vent… please?

posted 6 years ago in May 2012
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Wow, I wouldn’t have invited her.  That’s really rude and pushy. 

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@abbie017:  Agreed.  That would have solidified my resolve to NOT invite her.  With my personality, though, I’d have replied “your invite didn’t arrive because I didn’t send you one.”  

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I just never would have invited her. I probably would have said something like, its a small wedding. But if I was being tactless me I would have said you aren’t invited. Either way, just forget about her, and if she doesn’t reply by the cut off, don’t count her in.

Post # 7
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Oh snap! That’s a little assumptive! People are rude.

I feel you on the 11 days deadline. We are still missing about 1/2 of our rsvps. We had zero come back yesterday. *le sigh* Please send them in people!

 

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@LadySand:  While I agree that it’s very rude of this person to invite herself, I also am totally feeling your eff it attitude. FI’s Dad came out with a list of 7 couples to invite including some people neither of us had ever met (which was one of my “rules”) and I let it go. I’ve gotten used to spending money on things to make this less stressful for me, so this is similar right?

If I were you I would totally fb harrass this person every other day about the RSVP so she can see how annoying it is. 

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