(Closed) Can I wear a black and white wedding dress ? ( photos inside)

posted 4 years ago in Dress
Post # 2
7199 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

you can wear whatever you want. Convincing your mother is another story entirely. 

Post # 3
103 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

ya.. thats ok…

being different is cool

now black is fashion 

Post # 4
9525 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

Your day, your way. Your mother already had her day, I’m sure her heart is in the right place though

Post # 5
4527 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

You can wear it! 

My mother is super conservative and I wore a black and white dress on my wedding day. In the end she admitted it was gorgeous and suited me perfectly. 


Post # 6
144 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

carol80:  gorgeous!!! Yes yes yes wear it 🙂

Post # 7
125 posts
Blushing bee

It’s nice.. but not very bridal.. you can have champagne or grey lace to give some sort of contrast.. but black is a bit on the extreme end for a wedding dress in my opinion. 

Post # 8
2251 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

You can wear whatever you want, it’s your day, your way. However,  I can see why your mother doesn’t like this dress,  it looks like the dress has giant ink splotches (like for the psychiatric test). You might regret this one later  in life.  There are more elegant dresses with black details on the market.  But hey,  you do whatever pleases you in the end.

Post # 9
558 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

wear whatever makes you happy!

Post # 10
376 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

you are definitely entitled to wear whatever you want for your wedding. Just make sure that in 10 years you will love the pictures of you in your dress. If you love it, go for it. But it doesn’t hurt to look around and see if there are other dresses that suit your look and style? 

Post # 11
2842 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Wear whatever you like! My mum actually didn’t want me to wear a white dress (neither did she, so that figures)l

You can even wear a black and white dress and do pole dancing, like this Bee:

Pole fitness in my dress (pic heavy!)

Post # 12
2663 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

carol80:  Provided you’re the bride you can wear whatever you like!

Post # 13
3185 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2019

carol80:  It’s a dress and its your wedding thus it can be a wedding dress. If you do everything your mother wants it will be her wedding not yours.

Post # 14
3287 posts
Sugar bee

carol80:  Tell your monther that in some cultures white is what you wear to funerals. 

Post # 15
401 posts
Helper bee

carol80:  of cos you can, but whether you want to despite your mother’s opinions is another matter… show her some vera wang dresses (all black!) and try to convince her. If u r close to your mum it maybe impt to consider her feelings too at the end of the day 

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