(Closed) Can I wear black to a wedding?

posted 3 years ago in Guests
  • poll: Can I wear a black dress?
    No - absolutely not! : (3 votes)
    3 %
    Maybe - Depending on how you accesorise : (10 votes)
    9 %
    Yes - of course you can : (101 votes)
    89 %
  • Post # 2
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    227 posts
    Helper bee

    I voted yes but I would suggest checking with the couple if possible. It should be ok but depending on your culture it might not be and I always thinks it’s polite to ask. 

    Post # 4
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    2134 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Yeah. Some ladies wore a black dress to mine. I didn’t even bat an eye.

    Post # 6
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    1149 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    I’ve worn black to several weddings.  I didn’t even know this was an issue.

    Post # 7
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    47217 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    We  invent issues. No one would question a man wearing a black suit.

    The last thing a bride needs is every guest checking if their outfit is ok.

    Post # 8
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    450 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2017

    It’s hard to go wrong with a Little Black Dress, no matter what the occasion! I say rock it 🙂 I certainly have.

    Post # 9
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    1310 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    Little black dress is universally appropriate. 

    Post # 10
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    2126 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I think definitely yes! If anyone tried to side eye you for a modest black dress, they’re the crazy ones! 

    Post # 11
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    227 posts
    Helper bee

    breatheandrelax :  in most Western cultures black has become the colour of mourning, so amongst more traditional groups may be seen as inappropriate at a wedding. In the UK it is often frowned upon (I have worn black to weddings but my crowd are metallers so it’s less of an issue). It’s also not always appropriate for men to wear black suits to weddings in the UK. It is becoming less frowned upon though and even in Europe cultures vary. 

    Post # 12
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    2657 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2016

    I’ve never attended a wedding where there hasn’t been at least one woman wearing a black dress. It’s a classic colour that’s flattering on everyone, so I can’t see why it would be a problem.

    Post # 13
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    164 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2017

    I think it really depends on where you’re from. In the Southern US, it’s generally considered rude to wear black to a wedding. But people also tend to wear more colors in general. In another region, black might not be a big deal. I went to a wedding in NYC a few years ago and half the wedding guests were in black, and no one batted an eye. 

    Post # 14
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    1391 posts
    Bumble bee

    I often wear black to a wedding…it seems like the majority of women wear black as it’s a very neutral, yet classy color.  Goes well with any setting.  

    Post # 15
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    47 posts
    Newbee

    I think I’ve worn black to most of the weddings I’ve been to. And funnily enough, never to a funeral. Do what you want! 

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