(Closed) Can somebody be happy for me?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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3305 posts
Sugar bee

If they won’t be happy for you, be happy for yourself. This is your wedding and should be a time of happiness for yourself and your husband to be. Congratulations!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

(((HUGS))) Congratulations!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

It could happen to anyone..i find it lovely the fact that you reunited with your first love!! How romantic is that???? Do what your heart tells you to and others will see your happyness. Congratulations!!!

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I agree with everything armychica0 said. 

Also, Cogratulations to you and your soon-to-be-husband.

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

I’ll celebrate with you!  I’m sure many of the Bees will, in fact.  Congratulations, and big hugs for getting away from your ex and finding real love.  😀

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m super happy for you! It always cheers me up when people find “the one”, especially later in life after you’ve gone through some rough things.

That being said, this is one of the major downsides to eloping by yourselves. If your family isn’t involved or even at the wedding you can’t really expect them to be very into it. They may even feel left out that they aren’t invited. This doesn’t mean you need to change any of your plans, just try to see it through their eyes. If you want your fiance to get to know your family I think you need to initiate it. Maybe invite them out to visit you guys. Or go home for the holidays and make a point to spend time with all your relatives and introduce them to your new man. It doesn’t sound like any of them are being purposefully mean, but your ex was a part of their lives and you can’t really ask them to give that up. You can ask them to get to know your fiance.

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m happy for you 🙂 Sounds like you’ve been through a lot but you’re finally getting a pretty happy ending by reuniting with your first love (which is sooooo sweet!) I know there are all these other horrible issues going on but I for one am happy for you, even though I’m a total stranger in another country 🙂

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m happy for you too.  Don’t be sad.  You have every reason to be happy.  Congrats!

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I am happy for you! Don’t be sad!

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Congradulations!  I’m so sorry you aren’t getting the support you deserve.  BUT its fantastic that you’ve been reunited with the love of your life!

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

@Pamelor55:  Well I’m happy for you! Congrats on your marriage!!! I hope you have many wonderful years together. The ex can GTFO it.

Post # 15
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

congrats! it’s wonderful that you can finally be with with your first love! you have to do what makes you happy.

Post # 16
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Bumble bee

We’ll be happy for you. The rest of them can take a long walk off of a short pier.

Congrats on finding your happiness, and don’t let anyone take it away from you.

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