(Closed) Can this be done without looking tacky?

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I think it would be fine as long as you call it something other than a wedding shower.  I think it’s a nice idea!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I think its a cute idea,  but I agree to change the name. Maybe call it get together or something. I have no ideas with what to call it, sorry.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Recipe exchange

Recipe swap

But say it is in honor of


&


‘s marriage.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Sounds like a nice idea!  As much as I shied away from showers and parties, etc, I found that many more people than I anticipated (and invited) wanted to celebrate with us, regardless.  

Saying that it’s recipie exchange, etc, to celebrate your impending nuptuals will let people know they don’t need to bring a gift, it’s just a party.  In fact specifying what to bring makes people even more comfotable. 

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

“FI and I aren’t really having a wedding. It will be very private and intimate. However I wish I could still have a wedding shower. I just really want all the women on both sides to celebrate with me. “

This sounds like an engagement party to me depending on how soon you do it before your wedding.  The closer you get to your wedding day, people may be a little bitter that they’re not invited and may be less likely to come (they should not be that way but some are like that, unfortunately).  I see you are getting married in May 2013, I think if it’s at least, say 6 months, before the wedding then you can still pull it off as an engagement party. 

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Call it a tea or a lunch or something to that effect, and you’re in the clear πŸ™‚

 

 

Post # 11
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

You can’t have a bridal shower without any actual weddng.  It’s rude.  If you want to do the recipe route, you should find something different to call it. 

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I really don’t see why it would even be that big of a deal. I wouldn’t be offended at all if I was invited to a wedding shower but the couple wasn’t having a big wedding. It’s all about your family and friends supporting you. I’ve heard of having a “sprinkle” instead of a “shower” if you want to have something smaller πŸ™‚ I think you’d be just fine doing that. As long as you aren’t sending registries with the invites, you’re fine..and you could include somewhere on the invite that you only want recipes. Maybe do something with a play on words and have like..You’re invited to a “Sprinkle”..and then have a cupcake on it or something (the recipe part) πŸ˜‰

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

okay- you can totally have a wedding shower even if its not really a wedding. My bestfried is throwing me a wedding shower 2 nights before our ” wedding ” and its really just a nice small intimate gathering with dessert.

 

I would still call it a shower cuz the way I look at it, they are still ” showering ” you with advice, ideas, and recipes!

 

Just my opinion of course. πŸ™‚

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