(Closed) Can we do a “Waiting Bee Intro, Part 2”?

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 332
389 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Hi new & wanted to play!!

User Name: 242beauty

Location: Bahamas

Age: 24

Occupation: Office Clerk partime Ex law student but startign fashion school in fall ( true passion)

SO age:29

SO Occupation: Butcher/Baker..working up to be a chef

How you met: to teenage fools tht just clicked on the social media HI5 randm but is tht still even up??

Relationship Length: 7 and half years (8 this december)

Describe Myself: I’m short (shout out to my petite ladies) usually a very upbeat person a lil fisty on the mouth :$ but would do anything for the ppl tht I love and care about.

Describe SO: He is the ying to my yang lol whenever I upset or angry he know how to calm me down and vise versa and he love me even with all my crazy lol

Interests: Fashion, makeup (well anything girlie honestly) & baking  

Kids/pets: nope & nope

Guilty Pleasures: wedding shows, wedding blogs πŸ˜› & fanfiction

Word of Wisdom: Well just be honest with your guy without nagging if you cant openly talk about where the relationship is heading then maybe it’s not ready for such a commitment as marriage. Also dont let the amount of time pressure u forget what every1 thinks is the right time and figure out what is best for the both of you after all it’s your SO tht you will be living will and spending your life with not every1 else.

Comments: Sorry the top part wasn’t a breif sentence but stay strong ladies if your SO is a amazing as you think they are thigns will work out πŸ™‚

Post # 333
88 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

User Name: unosmartcookie

Location: Montreal, Canada

Age: 34

Occupation: Currently in transition and planning to go back to school for a certificate in Human Resources.

SO’s age: 33

SO’s Occupation: Software Engineer/developper

How you met: Okcupid.com – The site really works.

Relationship length: 2.5 years

A few words to describe yourself: Petite positive woman can be serious at times but have a sense of humor. Love my nieces and nephews. Can’t wait for us to have our own children.

A few words to describe your SO: Quiet, caring, loves to cook and sense of humor. Many would call him a computer geek, but I call him my love. 

Interests: Love discovering new indie music online. Its facintating what is out there. As well being from Canada, having political debates. 

Kids?/Pets?: No kids but trying.

Guilty pleasures: Chocolates and Macaroons.

WaitingBee Words of Wisdom (brief sentence): Don’t sweat the small stuff. Life is too short if someone isn’t doing the things the way you wish. There always needs to be compromises in a good relationship.

Comments (for longer story if you wish): I couldn’t believe the way he brought up marriage and said the proposal was soon! Guess, he has been shopping without me knowing.

Post # 335
1262 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Church

User Name: laceydoilies

Location: Ontario, Canada

Age: 28

Occupation: Law Clerk/Legal Assistant

SO’s age: 32

SO’s Occupation: Manager

How you met: Through mutual friends

Relationship length: 3.5 years

A few words to describe yourself: serious, classic, board gamer and D&D player, loyal

A few words to describe your SO: witty, quick, opinionated, self-aware, kind, loyal

Interests: photography, history, law

Kids?/Pets?: furbabies: Loki (cat), Bronte (dog)

Guilty pleasures: ice cream

WaitingBee Words of Wisdom (brief sentence): Be patient

Comments (for longer story if you wish):

When we first met we hated each other. We met through a couple mutual friends when we went to a club. One of the girls had previously dated him and they were still sleeping together. I did not know that and she told me some things to make me think that he just was looking for some ass, for lack of better words. She, in the meantime, convinced him that I was racist against people with brown skin (he is half native Hawaiian). He believed her. That is until he saw me with a Pacific Islander I was briefly dating and saw that no, I was not racist. We happened to be at the same party a month or two later (this is about five months after we had first met) and another friend needed to go to the ER. So we took her. While waiting for her in the waiting room we started to talk and found we had a lot in common. After that we continued talking but about a week later I had landed a contract to teach out in Saskatchewan. I moved to Saskatchewan not long after and I we talked every evening (which kept me sane – I was really unhappy during that time). At Christmas break I came back to Ontario for about 2 weeks. We spent almost every day together and decided that we would like to try to have a relationship. He came up once during that time to see me for a few days. I moved back at the end of the school year, which is when we moved in together. It has now been 3.5 years and the rest is history. Now we are getting ready to move on to the next step which is marriage (after getting engaged). I look forward to it.

Post # 336
542 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

User Name: nab1223 

Location: Boston, MA

Age: 24

Occupation: Program Coordinator at a small non-profit

SO’s age: 24

SO’s Occupation: Currently a graduate student in computer science, heading off to law school in the fall.

How you met: We were randomly placed in the same small group at our college orientation…and then randomly ended living right next door to each other!

Relationship length: 5.5 years

A few words to describe yourself: Smart, curious, kind

A few words to describe your SO: Driven, stubborn, kind

Interests: Spending time with our families & friends, trying new foods (and drinks!), traveling

Kids?/Pets?: One adorable goldendoodle, Olive

Guilty pleasures: Ice cream, crime TV

WaitingBee Words of Wisdom (brief sentence): Remember that your time will come, no matter how agonizing it feels right now (if only I could follow my own advice!). Also, give your SO time to do things his way…while also respecting your own needs and wants.

Post # 337
27 posts
  • Wedding: August 2016

Ooh! My turn πŸ™‚ I’ve been a long time lurker with an account, but I’ve never actually introduced myself!


User Name: sparklebow (because I like sparkley things and rainbows!)


Location: Ontario, Canada


Age: 24


Occupation: Grad student


SO’s age: 23


SO’s Occupation: Grad student


How you met: my best friend is dating her twin sister πŸ™‚


Relationship length: 1.5 years


A few words to describe yourself: smart, caring, a little bit neurotic, creative


A few words to describe your SO: caring, smart, cute, athletic, awesome


Interests: music, vegan cooking and baking, computers, research, academia


Kids?/Pets?: children are terrifying! I do have a furbaby though πŸ™‚


Guilty pleasures: weddingbee :3 SO rolls her eyes a little bit when I mention this website. also, bad gangster rap from the 90’s. and sneaking chocolate chips out of our baking supplies for snacks.


WaitingBee Words of Wisdom (brief sentence): Don’t force it! It’ll happen when the time is right. (I learned this one the hard way.)


Comments (for longer story if you wish): I was engaged once before, to a great guy. Unfortunately, I found out a great guy really isn’t what I need lol. The whole experience was awful and made me hesitant to try again, but I’m obscenely excited now about the whole waiting business, particularly since she asked me about my ring preferences! I spend waaaayyy too much time on the ring boards.


Post # 338
30 posts
  • Wedding: May 2016

I’ve been on and off this board for a year now, but I’ve never done an intro.. Figure its time now that I’m waiting for real πŸ™‚

User Name: witchbaby

Location: Ottawa, Canada

Age: 26

Occupation: Analyst

SO’s age: 27

SO’s Occupation: Manager at IT company

How you met: Mutual friends

Relationship length: 5 years

A few words to describe yourself: Passionate, fiesty, funny, a little nerdy.

A few words to describe your SO: Smart, kind, funny, protective, sexy nerdy πŸ˜€

Interests: cooking, travelling, gaming, chilling with friends

Kids?/Pets?: One furbaby

Guilty pleasures: the vampire diaries.. haha. And pinterest.

WaitingBee Words of Wisdom (brief sentence): “Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; but remember what you have now was once among the things you only hoped for”-somebody else


Post # 339
441 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I never even saw this thread – silly me! Hope it’s not too late.


User Name:  mscuppycake

Location: Vancouver, Canada

Age: 27

Occupation: Kindergarten teacher

SO’s age: 27

SO’s Occupation: Police officer

How you met: Online

Relationship length: 4 years, 3 months

A few words to describe yourself: Quirky, thoughtful, musical…a writer? (not by trade)

A few words to describe your SO: logical, rational, responsible, kind

Interests: Piano, singing, songwriting, journalling, scrapbooking

Kids?/Pets?: None. Don’t plan on having kids and not a big fan of animals.

Guilty pleasures: Weddingbee! (haha). Also – excessive amounts of ice cream and re-runs of “Full House”, “Friends”, and “Sex and the City”

WaitingBee Words of Wisdom (brief sentence): Good things come to those who wait.

Comments (for longer story if you wish): Thanks everyone being so welcoming and supportive!


Post # 340
113 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Since I asked to be added to the waiting list I figured it was officially time to introduce myself!  I’ve been creepin on these boards for a while now!!!!!!! 


User Name: Soon2BeBee

Location: Colorado

Age: 27

Occupation: Sales at a fire protection comapany

SO’s age: 35

SO’s Occupation: Sales

How you met: Mutual Friends…. funny, long story

Relationship length: Just about 2 years

A few words to describe yourself: Witty, compassionate, semi-adventurous, sucker for romance

A few words to describe your SO: Funny, Witty, honorable, trusting, handsome, goofy, all around great guy!

Interests: Snowboarding, trying new restaurants, travelling, hockey, football, spending time with friends, stilletos

Kids?/Pets?:  No babies yet but 2 little kittens (my loves!)

Guilty pleasures: Dessert, reality TV

WaitingBee Words of Wisdom (brief sentence): If you know an engagement is coming, take a step back and enjoy your last little bit of time as boyfriend and girlfriend.  Things will be different once engaged.  This is advice that I am currently following.


@Theonetime– Cool that your SO is a sprinkler fitter!!!!  I work for a sprinkler company!!!!

Post # 341
440 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

User Name:



san francisco bay area




elementary school teacher

SO’s age:


SO’s Occupation:

technical support dispatcher for a medical cloud-based company

How you met:

We lived in the same building my freshman year. I was on the second floor, he was on the first. Fell in love at first sight, we just saw each other at different times!

Relationship length:

8 years in November

A few words to describe yourself:

empathetic, quiet, competitive

A few words to describe your SO:

compassionate, funny, loyal, obsessive ; )


running, cooking, reading, education, organizing, watching tv


Not yet! We’d love to get a dog.

Guilty pleasures:

wine, desserts, pinterest

WaitingBee Words of Wisdom (brief sentence):

Waiting is worth it? Patience is a virtue? I have no words of wisdom, I need them though because I am going crazy waiting!


Post # 342
69 posts
Worker bee

User Name:  DazedConfusedEtc

Location: a land far away

Age: 30

Occupation: Marketing Manager

SO’s age: 32

SO’s Occupation: Computer Programmer

How you met: Worked together

Relationship length: 15 months

A few words to describe yourself: Funny, outgoing, stresscase

A few words to describe your SO: Kind, loving, stable

Interests: Working out, live shows, good food, music

Kids?/Pets?: I don’t have any and my SO has a 9ro from a previous marriage.  We plan on having 2 or 3 together.

Guilty pleasures: TV shows on the CW

WaitingBee Words of Wisdom (brief sentence): I am here for all of your wisdom;P

Comments (for longer story if you wish):  I’ll get into long boring details laterCool

Post # 343
323 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

User Name: Steph_Lady

Location: Memphis

Age: 27

Occupation: teacher (english/history)

SO’s age: 26

SO’s Occupation: also a teacher (history/counseling)

How you met: in college, he was the best friend to one of my new friends.  Actually, he attended a different college, but came to our campus to hang out.  He started driving me back to the dorms at night, and after about a year, he asked me out!

Relationship length: 7 years in August

A few words to describe yourself:  geeky, clumsy, kind-hearted, randomly musical (i sing all the time…ALL the time)

A few words to describe your SO: geeky, loving, gamer, opinionated

Interests: reading, writing, planning secret weddings on secret Pinterest boards, shopping, our dogs

Kids?/Pets?:2 dogs.  one is a chow mix we got the first year we were dating, the second a dachsund mix we got when we bought our house (3 years ago)

Guilty pleasures: trashy romance novels (Lisa Kleypas and Jude Deveraux are my faves), Porject Runway, UFO documentaries

WaitingBee Words of Wisdom (brief sentence):  Finding the love seems like the easy part now, as waiting has become so hard.

Comments (for longer story if you wish):  This place is magic.  We are moving forward, but keeping it quiet, so I can’t really tell anyone that my ring is being made, it is already paid for, and in 12 weeks my SO will have it.  Knowing there are others in similiar boats makes life so much easier to bear.

Post # 344
411 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - Our church and then at The Garden Room for the reception

User Name: WaltzDreams

Location: Maryland

Age: 30

Occupation: Page

SO’s age: 21 (He’s mature for his age.)

SO’s Occupation: Catering & Farming

How you met:  He was a customer at my workplace. We got to talking, realized that we had a bit in common, decided to hang out for lunch.

Relationship length: 9 & 1/2 months

A few words to describe yourself: Bookworm, theater geek, goofy, sentimental

A few words to describe your SO:  Thoughtful, caring, theater geek, hard-working

Fine arts, reading, travel, watching baseball, thrift shopping, writing, music, old movies, period clothing, history, antiquing

Kids?/Pets?: No kids yet, but I refer to his dog sometimes as our fur baby. πŸ˜‰

Guilty pleasures:
Mismatching my socks and reading Us Weekly (I have a love-hate relationship with that magazine.)

WaitingBee Words of Wisdom (brief sentence):
Trying to focus on the present fun times we have together and less on our future plans (it’s hasn’t been easy, but we’re working on it).

Comments (for longer story if you wish):


Post # 345
7 posts
  • Wedding: September 2015

I am another guilty waiting bee; guilty of stalking (coming and going every month or so). So I figure I should jump on the bandwagon since all the cool kids are. πŸ™‚

User Name: Red-Velvet

Location: Illinois

Age: 23

Occupation: Pharmacy Research Assistant / IV Room Tech

SO’s age: 24

SO’s Occupation: Medical Communications

How you met: SUPER LONG STORY, grab some popcorn. πŸ™‚ I met SO’s friend in 2005 (on MYSPACE no less, HAH!), we tried, it never worked out, but we stayed really close friends. He would always drag me out with his guy friends whenever I had a messy break up. In 2010, I met up with them and SO happened to be along that night. I recognized him, but no more than knowing his name. We’d met previously, but he always had a girlfriend. Apparently I had my super-sassy pants on that night because when SO came up and tried to shake my hand/introduce himself, I looked him up and down, gave a snooty look and said “Yeah, I’ve met you before.” & turned my back to him. STILL TO THIS DAY, I have no idea what came over me. That was so completely out of character. So, that night was super fun, and SO was super cute and super funny. I told my friend how I thought he was a nice guy, but I really thought he was out of my league and nothing would come of it. About a week later, I’m leaving work late, stopped at a red light, and who pulls up next to me; SO with my friend in the passenger seat. They force me to hang out with them for the night, and after that SO and I had our first “real” date. It was awful timing– super crazy amounts of pressure meeting someone new around Valentine’s Day. Ugh, never do it. Long story short– I truely believe that if I had not been late at work, I would not have stopped at that red light. They would not have stopped next to me, and I would have been moved on to someone else. Huge huge example of fate/there’s a plan for everyone. πŸ™‚ 

Relationship length: 3.5 years

A few words to describe yourself: Baker, competitive, funny, nerdy, bookworm

A few words to describe your SO: Funny, handsome, caring, giving, protecter

Interests: Photography, reading, baking, beauty/makeup/manicures

Kids?/Pets?: No human babies, but we have 2 fur babies. Cece and Eddie. 

Guilty pleasures: Bad Reality TV; Teen Mom, 16 & Pregnant, Jersey Shore, Mob Wives

WaitingBee Words of Wisdom (brief sentence): My favorite piece of advice? FAKE IT TIL YOU MAKE IT. 

Comments (for longer story if you wish): I’m a very good advice giver, but I never listen to my own. I try to keep busy with work and friends, but as the days go by, it’s proving harder and harder. Count your blessings; Try to focus on what you have and not on what you’re missing. SO and I are part of a close-knit group of 4 couples. We have been together the longest- by a long shot, and now, we are the only non-engaged, non-expecting couple. I try so so hard not to be jealous, but I am really terrible at it. I’m tired of watching everyone get what I have dreamed of for literally my entire life. So, I’m hoping to find the support of others in the same boat as me. 


(Jesus, I didn’t meant to write a book, haha!)

Post # 346
96 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

Hi everyone! I am a long time lurker. I started reading Weddingbee a few years ago when my cousin became a Bee and began blogging about her wedding. Anyway, here goes.

User Name: HoyaTerpDC

Location: Washington, DC area

Age: 29

Occupation: librarian

SO’s age: 32

SO’s Occupation: boring government stuff

How you met: an Okcupid success story!

 Relationship length: since Nov 2012 

 A few words to describe yourself:   artsy, positive, candid, daydreamer 

 A few words to describe your SO: nerdy, generous, thoughtful, talented, not one word but he’s a great cook and homebrewer!

 Interests: museums/photography, horseback riding, working out (trying to become a runner), trying new foods/restaurants 

Kids?/Pets?: none, but I steal my parent’s Jack Russell mix puppy whenever I can

Guilty pleasures: Real Housewives of New Jersey, all shows on Bravo

WaitingBee Words of Wisdom (brief sentence): Live a life outside of your partner and do things that make you happy; it would be boring to be together ALL of the time!

Comments (for longer story if you wish): We started talking about spending the rest of our lives together around month 4, so things are moving fast but in a good way? A few days ago he mentioned that he was going to start saving for a ring, so I think that officially makes me a girl in “waiting.” πŸ™‚



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