(Closed) Can we mingle during cocktail hour???

posted 11 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

If you don’t need to be gone taking photos and would rather participate in the cocktail hour, I say go to the cocktail hour and mingle.  It doens’t usually happen that way, but honestly as a guest at a cocktail hour, if I don’t know many people I find myself just waiting for it to be over so we can get on with the party.  Everyone just wants to celebrate with the bride and groom anyway so I think it would be a nice surprise for that to start earlier.

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

I have been to several weddings now where the bride and groom have mingled with guests during the cocktail hour, and were still introduced when everyone was seated for dinner.  I think it’s a great opportunity to get face-time with each of your guests, so you have more time to dance and party the rest of the night!    This is what we will be doing as well, so I say go for it! 

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2008

I went out for a couple minutes of my cocktail hour, but was instantly hoarded by guests wanting to take pictures. plus, my feet were so tired, so I just went to the bridal room where my wedding coordinator brought trays of fancy cocktails for us to drink 🙂 it was nice to just sit and hang out with the bridal party and relax. it was also kinda fun to be hidden and have the bridesmaids go and get food for me 🙂

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2007

There’s no rule to say you can’t.  I personally will be skipping the receiving line, and utilizing that hour to let everyone get settled at the reception site while we finish up pictures and take a few moments to relax before the party starts.  I like the build up and anticipation of the bride and groom entering and being announced – which would be a little anti-climactic if we mingled beforehand.  I am also worried that we would end up being swarmed by guests and not be able to get away to go be announced and start dancing. In other words, I think it would throw our entire order out of whack.  Mingling before we’re announced would kinda defeat the purpose, but if it suits your taste then there’s nothing wrong with it.  Why not just be announced during the cocktail hour?

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2007 - Hyatt Lodge, Oak Brook IL

I was absolutely itching to mingle during cocktail hour, and had that 30 minutes built into our itinerary for that purpose, after taking some formal family shots. BUT, bustling my dress took longer than anticipated, so I think I only got about 10 mins of mingling in. Go ahead and do it if your schedule allows, you won’t regret it!!

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2008

I am planning on mingling with the guests during cocktail hour and it never occured to me that it was "untraditional".  But hey, it’s my wedding and I can do what I want!  So I say, go for it!  You won’t be alone!  =)

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