- 9 years ago
- Wedding: September 2009
I really don’t think it would be in good taste, but I am contemplating asking one of my BMs to just forget about it. She never returns my calls, and just this week, she called and told me that she can’t afford the gown I selected. Her reasoning is that she is unemployed, but yet, she flew out to Vegas for two weeks in February. I don’t want to be cold, but I need women that I can depend on. I asked her to be a bridesmaid in January and she readily accepted. I just feel like she could have budgeted her money better and is just using it as an excuse. Maybe I am being selfish, but I am beyond irritated. Realistically, she probably can’t afford the gown. It’s $179, but then because of the size of the dress, she will have to pay a $25 fee on top of the alterations that the dress will require. So this dress will easily be $250 or more. She is one of my best friends, so I don’t want to conjure up uneccessary drama, but I just feel like she let me down. I guess I just needed to vent, but am I out of line?