(Closed) CAN YOU FIRE A BRIDESMAID? LONG STORY AND JUST REALLY NEED TO VENT

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

If you want good feedback, I would make a new post without all of the capslock. I don’t mean that in a mean way, it is just very difficult to read and comes across like you’re yelling at all of us. But from what I got out of this it seems like the friendship wasn’t good and you were hoping having her be a bridesmaid would help improve the friendship, right? Honestly, that usually doens’t work out – don’t expect someone to change because you made them a bridesmaid, it’s just setting yourself up for disappointment.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee

I agree with PP that was hard to read! Caps can deter people from reading the entire thing. To me it sounds like you should just cut ties with her. She seems to make you mad and says things that come across as rude and just plain unfriendly. It doesn’t sound like it would be too hard to get her out of your life, i mean you said you don’t really talk anyway. Don’t bring up the renewals and just be done with it. You both have your own families and lives in different cities, people change and you aren’t always friends with the same people you once were.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee

I do know how you feel, I have a friend that is very negative about things and we rarely talk now because it is just too much for me sometimes. Its hard to think our friendship is pretty much over because we have been friends since 2nd grade, but that negativity is overbearing.

I do understand your feelings and I wish you the best of luck!

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