(Closed) Can you imagine my sister is upset with me for this?

posted 7 years ago in Favors
Post # 3
4424 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@tiff-tiff-tiff:  I do not think you’re ridiculous at all. You have a different style than your sister and that is fine. What I think is ridiculous is that regardless of how you and your fiance feel about these things (whatever they are) your mom said they would make them/give them out anyway. Really?? I’m a calm bride (and trying to stay that way with only 7 weeks left), but that would make me angry.

Post # 4
7899 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

Hold your ground. Those seem SOOOOO dated. 

Post # 5
1826 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Find them and hide then before the wedding! 😉

Post # 6
9819 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’ve never even seen those before…

Post # 7
111 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@tiff-tiff-tiff:  VERY dated IMO. Yikes. Hold your ground and take back your wedding. You don’t want to go through the day realizing your special day doesn’t refelct you guys at all. Terrible!

Post # 8
543 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I don’t understand your mom’s and sister’s attitude…it is your wedding…what does it mean..that they will give them away regardlesss of how you feel about it? WTF? What is the purpose of these bows anyway?

If you want people to know what wedding they are attending (like they don’t know already)…you can attach tags or stickers with names and date to your wedding favors…but these bows don’t seem to have much purpose to me..

Post # 9
70 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@tiff-tiff-tiff:  don’t do it…don’t do it! If you don’t like it, pass!! 

Post # 10
47458 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’ve never seen those before either, nor do I understand what purpose they serve.

A complete waste of money, in my opinion.

Back away from the wedding Mom and Sis!

Post # 11
452 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I’ve never even seen these? You’re not crazy and shouldn’t do them if you don’t want to, I’m pretty sure no one will miss them. And it is a bit of a weird thing for her to be upset about!

Post # 12
8482 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

I’ve never even seen those things before. What exactly is the purpose? Just to pin on your shirt/dress? 

Whatever they are, hold your ground! If you dont want them in your wedding, then dont let them be! 

Post # 13
1417 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley

If someone handed those to me there is no way in heck I would wear it.  I would probably toss it. 

I would hold firm. 

Post # 14
7199 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

@tiff-tiff-tiff:  count me among those who have never seen them but they STILL seem old fashion to me! I would have a serious “I feel… when… because….” talk with them. 

“I feel hurt when you insist on doing things at my wedding that I specifically asked you not to because it implies I am not important and your feelings matter more than mine.”

Post # 15
114 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

If you’re having a 90’s theme wedding- they’ll be great. Otherwise burn them with fire.

Post # 16
970 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Banff, Alberta

@tiff-tiff-tiff:  I don’t get it. What are these? Never seen them before. 

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