(Closed) Cancelled Wedding

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper

Sounds like this is definitely for the best.

Post # 6
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467 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

im so sorry that you had to make this decision, but its awesome that you were so strong and self-assured to make this choice – it definitely sounds like it was the right one, and you should be proud of yourself for making this decision

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Whoah. I’m sorry you have to cancel the wedding, but I’m also really glad he decided to let you see his controlling side before you got married :/. 

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

*hugs* – you made the right decision.  I’m terribly sorry you are going through this especially while involved in a LDR. 

You only get one life to live and living it by a man’s rules is not the way to spend it. 

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@tiffyb24: WTF – omg!  Good for you girl – it really sounds like you did the right thing!  I am sorry that this is happening to you now, but it’s better now than 10 years later!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I’m so sorry it had to come to that, 🙁 but I think you made the right decision, too. It’s not OK for someone to control you like that. I mean friends/family once a month??? <3 Best of luck to you!

Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Trust it is for the best. I was in a relationship like that for a long time and it is not where you want to be. Thank God you are not getting married. It would only get much worse.

Post # 11
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432 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@tiffyb24: I’m sorry it had to come to that but good for you for standing your ground! *hugs*

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Good for you for standing up for yourself and dogding and MAJOR bullet.  I agree with you that a situation with a controlling spouse never ends well.  Good luck to you. 

Post # 14
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I think you made the right decision! I am glad you stuck up for yourself!! Like you said good think you found out before you got married!

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee

Good for you! As much as it hurts now, you avoided a lot of future heartache.

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Wow… it sounds like you dodged a bullet there.  It’s a good thing you go out before things potentially got a lot worse.  Good luck.

Post # 17
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Blushing bee

MASSIVE red flags in that message from your fiance. You absolutely made the right decison. Other women in your situation should have the strength to do what you just did.

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