(Closed) Cancelled Wedding

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 33
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Goodness! I’m happy that you were able to get out of a toxic relationship like that. Like a PP said I’m not sure what the whole story is (ie. if you were out late at night all the time with guy friends), but he has no right to not allow you to ever see your friends or your family. It sounds like he was really bitter about having to leave his life behind in Florida and wanted you to give up yours too.

Post # 34
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Sugar bee

Wow, I can’t believe he thought that moving somewhere to be with you meant that he could make all the decisions in your life. You do that as a compromise and because you can’t stand to be apart, not to gain leverage! Hear! Hear! to the Congratulations on finding out before marriage. But I am terribly sorry that you have to go through the pain of a breakup now.

Post # 35
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36 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2011

good for you – can’t imagine how hard it is – but you’re the smarter and stronger person here!

Post # 36
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1574 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Sorry it happened but OMG, so glad it did. Does he think it’s 1950 or what?

Post # 37
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1202 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

OMG what a total ass! Good for you for ending it!

Post # 38
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627 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Congrats, you just saved yourself about 5-10K in lawyers fees for the inevitable divorce. I think that deserves a present 🙂

Post # 39
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Good for you, and please promise us that you won’t go back to him, even if he begs you! 

His behavior is a *major* red flag… a marriage is a partnership, a team. There shouldn’t be one person in control of the other. 

And expecting you to give up family and friends because he has to move? UM… WHAT? A spouse is a choice, parents and relatives are for life. 

Good luck with everything- even if it’s hard being along for right now, you’ll be so happy you did this when you meet a better guy in the future! 

Post # 40
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

sweet Jesus Tiff, im a beliver in give and take in a relationship but his demands were controlling and would have lead to emotional abuse – run girl, and keep on running towards a better, healthier and happier future. goodluck!

Post # 42
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102 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

good for you! stay strong! 

Post # 43
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170 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

RUN, FORREST, RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

 

Post # 44
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Wow…. I have to say (and my husband agrees) that your Fiance wanted out of the engagement.  Those rules are beyond ridiculous and if he truly wanted to keep you AND thought that you would quietly accept them, then he must be pretty darn gullible. 

 

I’m glad you are standing up for yourself and calling it off.  Run fast, run far and don’t look back!  *hugs*

Post # 45
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326 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

YOU DID THE RIGHT THING!!! Stay strong, you deserve so much better!

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