(Closed) Cancelled wedding.. Now back on and stuck between what is right!!!

posted 4 years ago in Traditions
Post # 2
262 posts
Helper bee

if the first wedding was cancelled, the bridal party was too.  2 years later, chose a new crew.  its ok that people and life changes.  pick who you want there now.  not then.  its not about the plan, its about the people you love the most standing by your side. 

Post # 3
46421 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I really don’t think that people with whom you are no longer close, would expect you to keep them in your bridal party. They will most likely be relieved that you don’t ask.

If you are not really close, but still “friends” they would probably be happier attending as a guest.

If you do not maintain much of a relationship, they would probably think it strange if you expected them to play the same role.

Post # 4
1222 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I can’t imagine that anyone expects you to stick to the same bridal party as before. Go ahead and pick who you want.

Post # 5
188 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I agree with the other people who have commented– when your wedding was initially canceled, so was the bridal party and everyone who got an invite. 

Post # 6
2453 posts
Buzzing bee

Gju100:  I think you are over thinking this.

I would be surprised if girls you barely talked to still expected to be in your bridal party after all this time.

People understand that things change and people change. Take what you want from the first wedding and leave what you don’t. I really dont think anyone is going to say anything. if your former bridal party is close enough to attend as guest, then tell them just that.

If anyone asks about not being invited then just explain it is a limited guest list and just your close friends and fam will be attending. They dont need to know that your close friends and fam are like 150 people lol 

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