(Closed) Decided to delete this post, too personal

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Unfortunately sometimes good people are born into toxic families, and the whole ‘blood is thicker than water’ rule doesn’t apply any more.

I know some people will disagree, but hey.

It seems like your boyfriend is the only good one in this bunch and it does sound like they’re using him. They’re deadbeats, and they can’t even keep custody of their own children? I’m assuming they’re drunks or junkies? Abusive?

But they are his family, which is a tie you can probably never cut out of his life unless he choses to.

But it sounds like that if you guys stay around them they’ll eventually wear you and your relationship down, so perhaps you guys might think about moving away? And just see them sometimes?

Because I don’t think your man will ever really be able to be free and live his own life with you when he has people like this dragging him into their mess 24/7. These people aren’t going to change, and if you stay with him and around his family you’re going to have to always deal with that.

 

 

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