(Closed) Cant decide what to do! WWYD?

posted 6 years ago in TTC
  • poll: When? ahhh!!
    Just start now, it might take some time to get pregnant. : (14 votes)
    31 %
    Wait, what's another 3 months. : (29 votes)
    64 %
    Flip a coin. : (2 votes)
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  • Post # 3
    129 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Does wine really matter that much? If you want a family, drink juice on vacation.

    Post # 4
    7293 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I would try not to control/worry so much, like thinking as far ahead as its school year timing.

    It seems like you guys enjoy your trips, so I  would try and wait til after, or how about start trying in your italy trip if ovulation falls then!


    Post # 5
    3773 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 1999

    It might take several months for your cycle to straighten out once stopping the pill. Maybe you could go off the pill and start charting now and then you will be ready when ever you guys are a go.

    Post # 6
    607 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Why not at least go off the pill earlier and start trying in Italy? You’ll want to be off the pill for a little while before really trying anyway. I could certainly enjoy Italy without wine, but I wouldn’t want to be on a big exciting vacation with morning sickness. I would worry much less about the school year thing, since it’s not like these things can be planned down to the date, you know?

    Post # 8
    9690 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @xxbyamomentx:  Does wine really matter that much!  In Italy?!  Gasp!  😉

    OP:  I think I’d wait to start trying until after your Italy trip, it’s only 3 months away.  Then, go for it, baby!

    Post # 10
    2550 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I love to travel and I love wine.  I would definitely wait until after your trip.  I couldnt’ imagine going to Italy and not being about to eat great food and wine cause I’m sidelined by morning sickness.  90 days will be here sooner than you think:)

    Post # 11
    545 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Can I ask why you want a “young school year child”? As someone who was born in November, and a sister in June, she definetly had the worst end of the deal. All of her friends were getting their licenses or turning 21 way before her. Just curious as I want an “older school year child” 

    Post # 12
    1471 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    You dont need to give your body time to regulate, but if you want to try in those 2-3 months, it’s not a bad idea. That’s what we did, except we tried right away (tough not super seriously) and I got pregnant in my second cycle after coming off. I was charting, and my cycles seemed to be regular right away although I can’t be sure with only one full cycle before bfp). I was not regular before bcp, but for some women, it seems to regulate them even after coming off.

    I agree that if you had ms in Italy, it would be bad news (plus im a wino, so I might put it off for that). I would maybe go off bcp, let yourself get regular, and then try after returning from Italy. But it is fully your choice 🙂

    Post # 13
    907 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    I would just wait until after you get back from Italy and just count that as your final hurrah before TTC (not that there won’t be other trips, but TTC is its own adventure!)  September really isn’t too far away.  Maybe to help you feel like you’re getting into TTC mode, you could start reading some books on fertility and planning for pregnancy.  Aaaannnnddd–I am SO JEALOUS of your awesome trips! 

    Post # 14
    5670 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I was in your exact shoes a year ago. I got married in August 2010 and had an Italy trip booked for November 2011. I went off the pill and started charting before, but we didn’t start TTC until we came home. There is a lot more than just wine that I would have missed out on. A lot of the food is unpasturized so you can’t eat it. Also there was so much to do and so much walking, now that I’m pregnant I know I would have never been able to keep up and would have missed a lot.

    Post # 15
    2538 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2009

    I would just wait since it’s such a short time really.  Definitely try while you’re there!

    Post # 16
    1351 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    @BrookieCookie9:  Don’t kow Op’s reasons, but I’m a June baby (June 10 coming up), and I LOVED being a June baby. School was out, but I still always had parties, because it wasn’t during the school week. People got their license before me-but my school didn’t let sohpmores drive to school, so no biggie for me. Let’s be honest-most people are not letting their summer bday stop them from drinking at parties and such. Although, that was actually never me personally. I knew I was going to law school, and was too afraid to partake! Plus, I always had good weather on my bday-no dreariness of winter. My SIL has a Jan bday and that sucks for her! My mom is Nov, and it always gets tied to Thanksgiving sadly.

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