(Closed) Can't ease his mind.

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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11747 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

i think you would be best just to stop talking about it for a few months and let him get used to the idea and propose when he’s ready. 

Post # 5
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2638 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2006

Just keep showing him how much you love him and want to be with him without talking about the future or an engagement. He’ll do it when he’s ready!

I used to joke with my friends that for all I knew my then-boyfriend (now-husband) probably had the ring already for all I knew and was just waiting for me not to be a bitch for two weeks straight to give it to me. It’s scary how NOT far off I was. LOL. Everyone’s got their thing.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I don’t know if you can ease his mind; it sounds like something he needs to work out for himself. You’ve known each other long enough that he knows what you’re all about now, but even if you love someone it’s still a huge step to propose. He’s probably psyching himself out and just needs some time to get up the courage to do it. But I think it’s something he’s going to have to come around to in his own time.

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