- 2 years ago
- Wedding: April 2017
This a bizarre reversal of the ‘man-child still living at home’ scenario. You aren’t selfish. It’s your prerogative to decide that something is a deal-breaker, and this is a very reasonable deal-breaker at that! You are (understandably) never going to be able to accept the codependent-mum thing, and if you made him kick her out you’d be the monster that tore apart a mother and her son.
You aren’t obligated to date anyone for any reason.