- 7 years ago
I am so fustrated! I will lose 3 pound and then put it back on. I don’t fit into any of my cloths and I live in leggings. I am so unahppy with how I look. I got married in August and since then gained 12 pounds. I know it doesn’t seem like much, but I have a small frame and when I gain weight I look chubby. I was 115 before the wedding and now I am 127. I just saw a picture of myself and almost died, I look so chubby and you can totally tell I’ve gained weight. I know this happens a lot to women after they get married. I just don’t know how to lose the weight. I think even if I just lose 5-8 pounds I will feel way better. I used to run and be really active before the wedding, and then right after the wedding my job location moved, so I commute close to 4 hours a day so by the time I get home I am beat and can’t find the motivation to get back in the car to go to the gym. It’s been too cold to run still. I got the DVD Insanatiy but it’s so intense and I do it when I can get the engery but finding that takes a whole lot.
I’ve begged my Darling Husband to help me lose weight as he is def way more displined than me but he knows how sensitive I have become about my weight that he doesn’t want to pressure me and say let’s go work out and if I say no he doesn’t want to be like YES, let’s do it.
How do other newlyweds do it? How do you find the motivation and the will power? I know my eating isn’t great either, I eat light in the day but by the time I get home I am starving and my Darling Husband likes to keep snacks in the house which is what is doing the number on me. AHHH I am just so upset.
Any diets that have worked for some? I tried weight watchers but the new system really confuses me and when I do it at work people are always so noisy and I am never back on the computure when I get home. I’ve tried diet pills, to no luck. HELP!