- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
I am in a slight dilemma here. My fiance are four months away from our wedding and my future father-in-law has been in and out of the hospital since Dec. 2010. We live in Arizona where we have planned the wedding and nearly my fiances entire family lives in Oregon. My concern is flying him down in his condition–doesn’t seem right not having my fiances parents there for the wedding. We have paid for our honeymoon (tickets are from Arizona to destination). Is possibly relocating the wedding to Oregon where his parents are a viable solution? This would cut down our guest list immensely for people coming from Arizona though the people who otherwise wouldn’t have gone in Oregon would be able to come. On a totally random note our wedding theme: Fall Wonderland may fit better up there than amongst the cactus of AZ. My family is scattered throughout Southern CA, TX and AZ but my parents live in CA and AZ. I would be willing to pay much of the traveling costs if only a few can come (bridal party) Need help deciding–thanks for everyone’s help!