(Closed) Can't stand my mom and her BF… Need advice please!

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
168 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

@echolove:  I think you need to sit down and come to a contractual agreement if you continue to live with your mom and pay rent. as a tenant you have rights, paying for her apartment and sleeping on the living room floor are a direct violation of those rights. you need to stick up for yourself or move out. 


Btw I know it is only six months until the wedding, but saving money on rent may not be worth the poor treatment and potential fights. 

Post # 5
9647 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

posted on other thread

Post # 7
621 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

whoops i will repost in your other thread

Post # 8
467 posts
Helper bee

Why the heck doesn’t your mom go to her bf’s house if they want to spend the night together? Kicking your rent paying daughter out of her room to get some nookie just seems so wrong.  

Personally, I would move out.  Find a short term sublet you can take for the next few months. I did this great when I had a gap between apartments, and it worked out great.

It sounds like a horrible situation, you would be right to get out of there.  

Post # 9
2497 posts
Buzzing bee

@echolove:  If you don’t want to use up your thread deletions, you should close this thread to prevent new replies.

Post # 10
3572 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Move out. 

“Mom, I love you, but I’m not going to pay rent to sleep on the floor while you sleep with your boyfriend. I’m moving on X date, and you’ll need to act accordingly.” 

The end. This is so inappropriate in so many ways. You are not financially responsible for your mom. You dad is not responsible either. 

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