(Closed) Can't stop bickering at each other.

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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534 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

Ooooh bee, I feel you. We’re getting married in 2 weeks and at the 2 mth mark we were arguing about really just about everything. A couple of things I found helpful:

1) Take a giant step back and cool down. 

2) Don’t make every day about wedding planning. 

2) If you need to make decisions, set three days out of the week (MWF or TU/TH/SAT), an hour each, to go over stuff. Give yourself the rest of the time off to do regular couple things and definitely leave at least one weekend day open to just chill. 

3) If you’re finding it hard to agree on stuff, or he’s having a hard time deciding things, give him three options for each category, choose, and move on. If he’s still having problems, you decide, and move on. 

Good luck! 🙂 

 

Post # 4
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1806 posts
Buzzing bee

Yup–we bickered. 

About stuffing popcorn bags, how much I was doing alone, how I couldn’t go to a BBQ because I was too busy making bookmark escort cards, this list goes on.

Spoiler alert: on your wedding day you will be madly in love with each other again as well as relieved. He will tell you you’re the best wedding planner there ever was, too. 😉

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