Post # 1
I feel like my Fiance and I have been bickering about everything wedding related. Anyone else go through this?
We’re a little under 2 months away from our wedding, so its crunch time. I’m hoping it’s just because were stressing out to get everything done, but I feel like our frustrations are also flowing over into our everyday. We’ve probably spent the last 3 out 5 days upset at eachother.
I’m not sure what to do, it’s making me question everything.
Any advice would be helpful.
Post # 2
Ooooh bee, I feel you. We’re getting married in 2 weeks and at the 2 mth mark we were arguing about really just about everything. A couple of things I found helpful:
1) Take a giant step back and cool down.
2) Don’t make every day about wedding planning.
2) If you need to make decisions, set three days out of the week (MWF or TU/TH/SAT), an hour each, to go over stuff. Give yourself the rest of the time off to do regular couple things and definitely leave at least one weekend day open to just chill.
3) If you’re finding it hard to agree on stuff, or he’s having a hard time deciding things, give him three options for each category, choose, and move on. If he’s still having problems, you decide, and move on.
Good luck! 🙂
Post # 3
It’s so hard sometimes because he is being very hands on, which I should be thankful for but we both have strong opinions.
We have also been spending a lot of our time trying to get everything set for the wedding, we don’t live together so we see eachother about every other day, so maybe we need us time. Saturday we did stray away from wedding talk, went out to a fest and enjoyed ourselves, no bickering.
I cannot wait to be done with this. I just want to be married already
Post # 4
About stuffing popcorn bags, how much I was doing alone, how I couldn’t go to a BBQ because I was too busy making bookmark escort cards, this list goes on.
Spoiler alert: on your wedding day you will be madly in love with each other again as well as relieved. He will tell you you’re the best wedding planner there ever was, too. 😉