- 7 years ago
Okay, so I’ve been staying with Fiance at the FILs’ house for about two months now. I swore I’d never do this, but it just kind of happened. We were sick of having to be apart and his parents had no objections to me staying here (we haven’t gotten our house yet). Well, Future Sister-In-Law (whom I cannot stand), lives here as well. She is the biggest baby in the world, and the sorry-est excuse for an adult you’ll ever know. Future Mother-In-Law hangs on to FSIL’s every word, believes every word out of her lying mouth. Future Sister-In-Law constantly lies to and steals from the FILs’, and Future Mother-In-Law defends her to the end (because she’s the “baby”). For instance, Future Sister-In-Law took some very expensive shampoo from FMIL’s bathroom. Future Mother-In-Law was rampaging through the house looking for her shampoo, angry as a hornet. When I told her that Future Sister-In-Law had taken and emptied the entire bottle, her tone completely changed. “Oh, that’s okay, I’ll just go get some more this week. She really needed it more than me, anyway.” This happens EVERY time. Future Sister-In-Law took $70 worth of steaks from the freezer and when Fiance told Future Mother-In-Law about it she tried to play it off like she wasn’t mad. It’s like she refuses to give anyone the satisfaction of seeing her get mad at her “baby”.
Anyway, I feel like I’m in a prison or something with Future Sister-In-Law here. She is used to being the queen of the castle, I guess. If I cook something, she comes in and says, “It looks like whoever cooked this didn’t do a really good job.” Future Mother-In-Law pays Future Sister-In-Law to do things around the house that she should not be getting paid to do, seeing as how she does not have to pay them rent. If Future Sister-In-Law needs money, she’ll offer to clean the house for Future Mother-In-Law. Only, she doesn’t clean. Her idea of cleaning is verry different than mine. Usually, she’ll get paid in advance to “clean”, then she never ends up doing it. Then, of course, I have to do it. So, Future Sister-In-Law is pretty much getting paid for MY work. She piles up dirty towels in the bathroom floor. I cannot stand a dirty/cluttered bathroom, but if I put the towels in the laundry room, Future Sister-In-Law raises hell. She has to have a towel to step onto when she gets out of the shower, one for her hair, and one for her body at EVERY shower. No wonder the towels are ALWAYS dirty. She washes laundry, then neglects to put it in the dryer, so it mildews. Then, if she actually does dry the clothes, she piles them on top of the washing machine and I have to fold them.
Fiance and I cannot leave food in the refrigerator, whatsoever. We can try to hide things in the garage fridge, but there is no guarantee that it will be there the next day. As soon as Future Sister-In-Law gets home she raids the fridge for food. She’s like a bear getting ready to enter hibernation. Tonight, we went out to dinner at Chili’s. Fiance brought home most of his food. When he got out of the bathroom (10 mins after Future Sister-In-Law came home), half of his food was gone from the box! She didn’t even ask whose it was or anything. She just ate his dinner. Then, Future Mother-In-Law had the nerve to claim that Future Sister-In-Law didn’t eat it. Umm, well who on Earth did?? I’m tired of not being able to buy non-perishable food items. If I do buy them, I’ve got to hide them and/or eat them fast. I’ve considered buying a mini-fridge for mine and FI’s room, but we’re about to be moving out and we might have to end up buying a fridge for our new house and I would rather save the money.
Anytime Future Sister-In-Law wants to talk to Future Mother-In-Law, she has to make a huge production of it. She comes in the room and says, “Mom, go in your room, I need to talk to you in private.” If Future Mother-In-Law tells her to just go ahead and say what it is she needs to say in front of me, she storms off and says, “Nevermind!” I don’t know about you guys, but to me, that is VERRRY rude! It makes me feel like she wants to talk about me or something. It’s not like she does this for only personal matters, either. EVERY time she wants to say something to Future Mother-In-Law she does this. At least once a day, she commands Future Mother-In-Law to go to her bedroom so they can talk, privately.
Ughh. Thanks for listening to me vent! There really is nothing I can do about this situation, at the moment. I just needed to get this off of my chest. Fiance is so used to his sister’s behavior that nothing phases him (she actually hit him with her car one time). He just shrugs everything off. I am hoping we get into our own house sooner, rather than later. Then, I will be limiting all communication with this big ass baby to a family function-only basis.