(Closed) Can't talk to friends or family about wanting a kid.posted 3 months ago in TTC
- 3 months ago
mrsdogmama0618 : Yes, i’m the same always wanted to be a younger mum, but we’re still a couple years off just due to timing.
I think the best way to cope with waiting is having a plan, we have one, it fluctuates with the ebs and flows of life but we’re on the same page with it all. We just got ourselves our second puppy, and that will take the edge off for a while.
I think, just thinking about how we are ‘preparing’ ourselves first makes it easier, like somehow we will be more ‘ready’ when it comes.
We have a few fun things to look forward to, getting engaged, planning a wedding, renovating our home. That will keep us busy, but i’m sure as soon as it feels ‘right’ we will try.
It’s very exciting! and He can’t wait. He is currently working on his trade & getting contacts to keep himself busy (to have backup cash jobs avalaible if needed), as well as working on lucrative (nothing too exciting) hobbies that bring in a small amount of cash. He has excpensive hobbies, so i’m glad some bring in more money they cost.
Have you got plans for waiting? Or working out the ‘right’ time?
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