(Closed) "Can't Wait for this to be Over" – bf

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
266 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2016

Does he mean he is over the visa process and living apart and not seeing each other for lengthy periods? That makes sense to me πŸ™‚ 

Post # 3
2966 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I wouldn’t have taken that nearly as negatively as you did. What I got from his statement was ‘I can’t wait until we don’t have to deal with long distance’ or ‘I can’t wait until this process is done and we can be together all the time’

Post # 4
190 posts
Blushing bee

I think he means the visa and being in a LDR.  The way it was said it sounds like a means to an end…albeit a happy ending πŸ™‚

Sounds like someone isn’t going to be waiting much longer πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„

Post # 6
749 posts
Busy bee

Pretty sure he meant the visa business so that the long distance and the not seeing you would be over…

Post # 7
2729 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

if he has anxiety about flying (totally get it — I do too) then why are you taking it personally? He doesn’t like travelling and he’s probably ‘over’ the visa business too. Or maybe he’s worried about proposing. You know this is just how he is so don’t get so worked up over it.

Post # 8
4226 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2015 - Hotel Ballroom

I think he meant the whole long distance and Visa thing. I wouldn’t worry too much!

Post # 9
2968 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

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elephantear:  I think you are just feeling soooo much all at once (which is totally understandable given all you both have going on combined with being separated at the moment) and you are extra sensitive to his every word/action right now.

I really think he was speaking about the distance, the visa process and being apart!

Try to relax and realize you will be seeing eachother soon! πŸ™‚

Post # 10
1297 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2018

It sounds like he really wants to see you – he just wishes he didn’t have to get on a plane to do it!

Post # 11
334 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

When my Fiance proposed he said not even an hour later that he was so glad he got that “over with”. It’s a weird way to word it so i understand why you’re feeling weird about it, but maybe he is talking about proposing! 

My Fiance said that he was originally going to wait one more day so he could propose at six flags but he had soooo much anxiety over it that he ended up doing it the day before after a nice dinner. He wanted to get it over with so he could just relax and enjoy the rest of our vacation! So maybe he’s worried about the proposal going smoothly and just to be done with that so he can enjoy seeing you! 

Post # 12
1999 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

Seems to me like he means the visa process and the long distance. 

Post # 13
2849 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

Why would you assume he would be miserable visiting you? You sound very insecure, maybe I’m reading it wrong. 

Post # 14
278 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

When DH and I were long distance we said that to each other many many times. I really think he just meant that he is sick of the long distance and all of the stress that goes with it (visa, travelling, etc). If you’re super concerned, talk to him. You won’t help anything by stewing and working it up in your head.

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