- 7 years ago
- Wedding: July 2012
Hello Bees! I’m writing this in hope of some advice. I got engaged last July and my wedding is this coming July, so only 4 months to go. Lately I have been wondering if I am making the right decision. My fiance is a great man, I know that he loves me and cares for me.. he even got me a car for a wedding present. However, he is very set on his ways and nobody can make him change his mind. My life long dream has been to travel around the world before having kids, he wants to have kids right after the wedding and told me I cant have the cake and eat it too…. that if we ever traveled it’d be when we retire. I also wanted to go back to school and get a master’s degree, not happening…. Idk what to do. I love him and I know that I will have everything (economically) with him. But whats more important, my dreams or starting a family?… HELP!