(Closed) Cash or registry

posted 4 years ago in Gifts and Registries
Post # 3
632 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

For sure. I was asked a handful of times and said “Fi and I are saving towards our first home” and most people got the hint.

But I equally loved getting registry items, because even if I had the cash in hand and I wanted the item, I probably wouldn’t ever splurge on it. So I got a lot of items that we really love to use!

Post # 4
7908 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

If someone asks, sure, but in most circies, it’s considered rude to solicit cash gifts.

Post # 5
2609 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@Golden Ticket:  If you’re asked, I think an honest but demure answer is fine.  As in, 
“Oh, we’ll love whatever you choose!  After the wedding we’re going to put our focus on saving for a house (or whatever) so if we do receive any gifts of money, we’ll use it toward that.” 

Post # 6
6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

If I was directly asked, I answered cash.  I also never did a registry so all our gifts were cash. 

Post # 7
12257 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

If someone asked me directly, I would reply with “Well, we would love to put some money towards our house fund.”

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