(Closed) "Cat-called" at the pool…by a child

posted 4 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Jesus Christ!

I would have told him: “Please don’t say that until your balls drop”

or at least i would’ve thought that.

Kids these days…

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee

@badabing88:  Obviously, they have seen or heard someone do that and they think it’s cool. I doubt it was sexual.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Anamagana:  i would beat my son if i knew he ever spoke to a woman that way.

gotta blame poor parenting, and maybe a bit of the media/degradation of women, i suppose. so disappointing. i definitely would have snapped back at him.

“i’m a man, actually…”

that would’ve got him good. 0.0

Post # 6
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388 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I think you’ve taken this much too seriously.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee

@badabing88:  While I was pumping gas once, this ten-year-old boy rode his bicycle up to my pump and asked for my phone number.

It was so awkward. How do you even reject a ten-year-old? I just told him, “Sorry, I have a boyfriend.”

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

There was like a 7 year old that said “I’m gonna get you naked!!'” when my friend and I walked by.  Gross!!!

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper

Probably just looking for a shocked reaction (after seeing someone older do it). He probably thinks it’s a funny prank.

Then again, on two seperate occasions I’ve had a boy well under the age of puberty try to grab my boobs (both around 7 or 8 years old). One was in the pool and the other I was playing basketball with (he was going for an “oops I missed the ball”). Possibly these situations (revealing/bouncing) + boyish curiosity is what it was, though could’ve been learned behavior as well.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@badabing88:  He’s just mimicking behaviour he sees in older boys, trying to play grown up.  It’s not necessarily a sign that he has, or will grow up with, an unhealthy attitude toward women.

Post # 16
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Newbee

I teach 7 and 8 year olds and I have had the occasional – try to look down the shirt- thing but very rarely – these kids do know a lot though. I have heard all about dad’s girlfriend’s nipple piercing and loads of other inappropriate things 7 and 8 year olds should not be telling their teacher, let alone knowing about. 

This is the age when some boys start being curious too. I had to make two calls home this year about a student touching themselves in class – and one other one to a girls parents. It blows my mind the things they say. I had one student humming “i like big butts and i can not lie” on the last day of school, it was so not appropriate but boy was I laughing on the inside. 

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