- 7 years ago
- Wedding: July 2011
And sooooo, Fiance and I had a disagreement last night about the wedding and I was really rubbed the wrong way. I felt like he was presenting an adverse opinion/reaction to everything I proposed, presented, liked, and loved. I am a big advocate of “it’s the groom’s wedding too” so I always listen to him, am patient with him, and I always ask what he’d like to do. It seemed like lately he was just being objective to be objective and my patience wore thin last night and I just called everything off. I thought maybe we shouldn’t get married right now and we should wait. So I deleted all our folders of inspiration pics, all our saved favorites folders of vendors and venues. All my inspiration boards. I opened my wedding binder and threw all the papers, dividers, notes, and flyers in the physical trash. I wasn’t mad, just disappointed and thought we should get married right now.
I….Was….Wrong. This morning I woke up to Fiance on the internet looking at venues and options. He had taken all of the deleted files out of the Recycle Bin in our computer (I forgot to delete from there) and he had taken all of my papers out of the trash and put them BACK into my wedding binder. I asked him why and he said “because I want to marry you. And I caught a 2nd wind”.
Sorry so long. Sorry so mushy. Had to share.