- 5 years ago
- Wedding: March 2009
I have a visit with a new obgyn I am going to begin seeing scheduled for May 1st. I planned on writing down a list of my ‘schedule’ (as in: pain, prolonged bleeding, etc.) so we could begin testing to rule out things such as endometriosis, PCOS, vaginismus, etc.
Well, now I’m at CD49 and I have been writing down when my periods start/end so I can discuss this with her. But my cycle has gone awol and it’s driving me nuts.
I MCed on November 1st last year. My periods began starting on the 1st each month after (December and January). Before MC, my cycle started on the 15th. So, even if my cycles had decided to go back to the 15th, I would ‘technically’ be 3 days late now. I haven’t been stressed out (actually, I’m usually a LOT more stressed out, but I’ve been doing really well this last month and now it’s getting bad again).
I’m worried, because I know I’m not pregnant. I’ve tested 3 times, and it would’ve shown up by now. Last time I was pregnant (when I MC) BFP didn’t show up until I was 7 days late. But, as I said before, my cycles were starting on the 1st of the month, which would make me 17 days late, and BFP would most definitely show by now. (Also, Darling Husband and I haven’t had sex but one time last month, on January 10th, the day after my last cycle ended.)
When I was 14-15-16-17, my cycles would do this. Go awol, I would skip 3-4 periods, and only have them 4 times a year or so. I was not on BC of any kind at the time. Then I went on BC for a year, and my cycles came like clockwork each month (still super heavy and painful, but there every month.) I came off BC 1 1/2 years ago, and my cycles began going wonky again. The past 6 months, they evened out and were showing up on time. Now, I’m wondering if they’re going to start going missing for months at a time again. It’s stressing me out.
Because I am a new patient of this obgyn (will not go to my old one for personal reasons), I have to wait until May to be seen. But I really want to know what’s going on, NOW. ARRRGH. Should I call and ask them to let me know if there are cancellations because I feel I need to be seen soon? Or is this something I shouldn’t worry about?
Help me, Bees. I’m freaking out. 🙁