Post # 1
Maid/Matron of Honor here, planned a little soiree at a local winery for the bride to be, just the bridesmaids and me attending…is a gift to the bride expected on this one???? Would you want something…I feel like she’s supposed to get something…am I insane?
Post # 3
If its just a get together and not the actual shower then I dont think gifts are necessary? Is this the bridal shower or just some time with the wedding party before the big day?
Post # 4
I feel like organizing the event and paying for it IS the gift to the bride.
If you really feel like she should get something, then maybe an set of wine glasses for her and her Fiance. But you really don’t need to get anything.
Post # 5
She’s been engaged a week…we’re just starting the race here, but I thought it would be nice for the girls to get together and do a little fawning over her….just wondered what you guys would expect? She’s not Veruka Salt, she’s not demanding, in fact she’s really sweet and I just want her to feel special.
Post # 6
Oh ok I getcha. I wouldnt expect anything as a bride. I would simply see it as it is…a day for the girls to get together to fawn over my ring and talk about the beginning stages of the wedding planning.