(Closed) ceremony attire for groom’s children

posted 8 years ago in African-American
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

I think it would be fine for them to be dressed like him.  Perhaps they could be jr. groomsmen as well.  I am not sure what you mean by every picture?  I am also becoming a stepmom but our kids are younger.  Honestly I don’t think it’s that big of a deal, your guests will know he’s the groom and that they are his kids regardless of the way that they dress. I guess I don’t see it being that big of a deal?  I also don’t really think your bridesmaids should have a choice on who escorts them, it’s your decision not theirs.

Post # 5
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

Oh yeah, he should be in every bridal party picture and honestly i’d just stick the bridesmaids with them and tell the girls to deal with it.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

My sons were Jr. groomsmen and I only had a Maid/Matron of Honor..they stood next to my husband during the ceremony and one handed us the rings when it was time..my oldest (13) walked me down the aisle…the middle one (11) handed us the rings and the youngest one stood there and at one point crammed his hands down the front of his pants!!! it was a great day!

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

trust me, they won’t be in every pic….it will be such a whirlwind that he won’t nor will they want them to be in EVERY pic! I mean really…every pic…thats not even doable! let alone overkill !

Post # 9
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

oh i gotcha, i was thinking him and the groomsmen etc… i definitely wasn’t thinking they’d be in the pictures with you and your girls? i betcha he wasn’t either and he just wanted to include them in everything. is his mom still alive? could they serve as ushers perhaps?

Post # 10
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

i think jr groomsmen are the perfect place for them… i am using my 2yr old as my mini maid of honor, and as for bridesmaids refusing to walk with certain people they have no choice… this is a wedding procession not a date…   

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I am sorry but I don’t see the problem. My fiance has a daughter that is 12 from a previous relationship and she will be a Jr. bride’s maid–she will wear what the other bride maid will wear.  his son;s can be Jr. groom’s men and they should wear a similar version of what the other grooms men have on.. His children a re big part of his life and he wants them to take a ctive part in the wedding ceremony. what about the younger one being the ring bearer??

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

oh and the pic thing? they won’t be in every pic there will be a variety and any good photographer will say to swwitch it up and mix it up a bit. Dont worry things will be fine.

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