Post # 1
There is a little chapel I have always loved and have dreamed of having my wedding ceremony there.
This will be my finances second marriage. His first marriage was when he was very young, he was in love, but his bride wasn’t – she was pregnate and her mother forced her to get marri
My problem is they got married at my picture perfect chapel. I feel like it will. E bad luck to have our ceremony in the same place location where he took the vows to a failed mar
But I can’t find a better location.
Should I even be considering this little chapel or keep looking?
Post # 3
How long ago was there marriage ceremony? I would say just make it your own and forget what happened… Maybe he was always ment to get married there but just needed a second time around to find the right one to stand in front of him.
Post # 4
I would go elsewhere… I’m sure you’ll find the right place just for the two of you, without bringing him or his family those memories of a previous failes marriage.
Post # 5
How does your Fiance feel about this? If he and his family doesn’t mind, it wouldn’t bother me. They will be your wedding pictures, at your picture perfect chapel together. Woudln’t going somewhere else also be just as much a reminder that the reason you didn’t do at your top pick was because of his previous marrage?
I guess don’t believe in wedding curses – I inadvertenly chose the same wedding date as my parents’ (failed and miserable marriage, so of course I never knew the date to begin with, just like you probably never knew about his prior marriage there as you dreamed about your wedding in this place). Does that mean my marriage will suffer the same fate? Of course not. Does it mean yours will be similarly cursed if you have a wedding there under completely different circumstances? Not at all.
Post # 6
I don’t believe your marriage would be cursed, but I would personally want my ceremony to be unique and different from his previous ceremony. I’d try to find somewhere that was just *ours,* not something he shared with his first wife.
If I couldn’t find somewhere else, I’d try to find ways to make this ceremony venue special and personal to us.