(Closed) Ceremony Location Dilema

posted 7 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
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1715 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

How long ago was there marriage ceremony? I would say just make it your own and forget what happened… Maybe he was always ment to get married there but just needed a second time around to find the right one to stand in front of him.

Post # 4
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522 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I would go elsewhere… I’m sure you’ll find the right place just for the two of you, without bringing him or his family those memories of a previous failes marriage.

Post # 5
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41 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2012

How does your Fiance feel about this?  If he and his family doesn’t mind, it wouldn’t bother me.  They will be your wedding pictures, at your picture perfect chapel together.  Woudln’t going somewhere else also be just as much a reminder that the reason you didn’t do at your top pick was because of his previous marrage?

I guess don’t believe in wedding curses – I inadvertenly chose the same wedding date as my parents’ (failed and miserable marriage, so of course I never knew the date to begin with, just like you probably never knew about his prior marriage there as you dreamed about your wedding in this place).  Does that mean my marriage will suffer the same fate?  Of course not.  Does it mean yours will be similarly cursed if you have a wedding there under completely different circumstances?  Not at all. 

Post # 6
Hostess
16195 posts
Honey Beekeeper

I don’t believe your marriage would be cursed, but I would personally want my ceremony to be unique and different from his previous ceremony. I’d try to find somewhere that was just *ours,* not something he shared with his first wife.

If I couldn’t find somewhere else, I’d try to find ways to make this ceremony venue special and personal to us.

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