CFBC Roll Call!

posted 3 months ago in No Kids
Post # 2
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1045 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2019

Hi, I’ve been with my fiancé for 5 years, we are CFBC. We will remain so as I made the choice permanently 

Post # 3
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202 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

CFBC here! Darling Husband and I have been married for four years now, and I paid for his vasectomy last year as a Christmas gift to myself 😂 I’d eventually like to take permanent measures myself too, but I’m 27 and not having any luck convincing doctors yet. Darling Husband is 35 so he didn’t have a hard time getting the snip. 

Post # 4
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669 posts
Busy bee

Me too!  Fortunately (or maybe not) nature is soon going to make it a total non issue.  Hello hot flashes!

Post # 5
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73 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

Fiance and I have been together 5 years and we’re quite certain that we’ll be CFBC. As I mentioned in another thread, I want to advance my career and get my degree, travel a ton with Fiance, and do things together (we’re currently learning french at a local college). We’re thinking of volunteering abroad as well. That being said, we’re in our late 20’s so the pressure is on from friends and family (“when are you having kids?” “are you going to get pregnant after you’re married?”)- so annoying!

Post # 6
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598 posts
Busy bee

Happily childfree here!  Married three years.  

Post # 7
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514 posts
Busy bee

Here! Been together 10+ years, have had an abortion to keep the status quo and would do it again. 

Post # 8
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882 posts
Busy bee

40 years old, CFBC my whole life. Doubled down a few years ago and had a hysterectomy.

Post # 9
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3036 posts
Sugar bee

We’ve been together 12 years, married for a few months now. We are like 95% CFBC. I leave the option open because who knows what happens when I turn 35 or 40 (28 now). That said, I don’t like kids and have never had the urge to be a parent. I foster dogs, and that is hectic enough!!

Post # 10
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1213 posts
Bumble bee

I am 34, husband is 37. We have been together for 3 years, married for 1. We have a cat because we feel a dog is too much responsibility and work so yeah children are so out of the question.

Post # 11
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1124 posts
Bumble bee

Been together with my Fiance for over 5 years and we never want children. 

Post # 12
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103 posts
Blushing bee

Husband and I have been married 5 years, together 10+, and I have always known I don’t want kids. Husband was totally on board even back when we were dating so we are glad we found each other and can live our lives the way we want. We’re both in our early 30s and consider ourselves big kids with lots of living and adventures still to come and kids just don’t factor into our future. 

Post # 13
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10568 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2011

Mostly CFBC.  I could imagine a bit of an extreme situation where I would be willing to become a guardian, but I’m not even at the top of the list as the backup plan.  Aunty is the right role for me, not Mom!

Post # 14
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4433 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

CFBC, happily married and nearly 40, no kids for us! We have fids instead (feather kids/ birbs!)

Post # 15
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6344 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2014

CFBC, 31, married 3.5 years but been together for over 12 years.

Would like to be a dog mum some day but that won’t be for a while yet as we’re currently renting and would need to be sure we had the time etc.

Biggest perks for me of being CFBC are the freedom, having more money (we’re not remotely well off but can afford nice things because we don’t have children), and the travel (last year I went abroad 6 times and also squeezed in 3 mini breaks within my country!).

I wouldn’t call myself militant CF, however, I don’t really like children and prefer not to be around them or spend time with them if possible. This is particularly the case for children under the age of 10.

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