(Closed) Change first dance song?

posted 9 years ago in Music
  • poll: Keep our first dance song or change it?
    Keep it : (11 votes)
    65 %
    Find a new one! : (6 votes)
    35 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    2324 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2018

    If you ripped it off, 1000’s of people have too. Don’t worry about it, it’s a popular song. You’ll be fine. If anybody asks, just say how much y’all liked it and have always wanted to use it, etc.

    Post # 4
    Member
    1363 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2009

    4 months may not seem like a long time when you’re in the midst of planning, but it’s a long time for your guests.  I doubt most people (other than the brides and grooms involved) will even notice.  Do what makes you happy.

    Post # 5
    Member
    665 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Its not exactly that big of a deal, but I see your point… I’m guessing that you like the song and it really doesn’t have much sentimental value since it is a newer release? So, I mean, it wouldn’t be that big of a deal to you to change it if you’re thinking about it?

    What I’m getting at is that… our first dance will be to Lifehouse’s "You and Me" b/c it was our first dance together 4 years ago and it became our song. So even if I knew others that used it… I would NEVER think twice to change it.

    Post # 6
    Member
    2470 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    If it is "your" song then I would keep it but if its just a song you chose, and you think you might find one equally as suitable, I say find another.

    Post # 7
    Member
    145 posts
    Blushing bee

    I promise you that I can’t remember the first dance song of any wedding I’ve ever been to.  The most I can remember is something vague like "it was a country song."  So you are totally fine if you keep it.  If, however, it’s really going to worry you AND if you don’t have a strong emotional attachment to it, then go ahead change it just so it’s one less thing you’ll stress about!

    Post # 8
    Member
    1356 posts
    Bumble bee

    I agree with the other comments – you will probably be the only ones that remember, besides that couple. 🙂 And I imagine they would love thinking that you all liked their song enough to pick it – even though that’s not really how it all went down. I saw that as a first dance song a few weeks ago and it was precious. My vote is to keep it.

    The topic ‘Change first dance song?’ is closed to new replies.

    Find Amazing Vendors