Post # 1
I was wondering if you ladies would be concerned if let’s say your SO went from not wanting to have sex that often to wanting to do it almost every day?
My SO and I recently went from being intimate 2-3x a week to now 5-6x. t’s great obviously but it makes me wonder why the sudden change. Should I be concerned? Some back story is I recently caught him looking at porn while I was sleeping next to him. Shortly after he initiated sex that morning. I don’t have issues with him looking at porn, but it bother me a bit that he was doing it next to me!
Also, from my experience which makes me hesitant is that a year ago I found myself really attracted to another man. I would never ever do anything, but I did find myself turned on a lot of time and therefore wanting to have sex more often with SO at this time…
Am I overthinking?
Post # 3
I think you are overthinking. If he was doing something with someone else, you probably wouldn’t have increased frequency for the two of you. People go through phases of attraction I think.
Post # 4
@MrsSaltWaterTaffy: Thank you for the reply. I guess what I’m concerned about is my last part. If maybe he’s currently attracted to someone else which is causing his sex drive to rise? I know this kind of thinking will only drive me crazy, ugh!
Post # 5
- Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort
I think you are overthinking it. It’s normal for levels of intimacy to fluctuate. Just enjoy it.
Post # 6
Honestly, I would only be concerned if it were the other way around. More sex just means he’s finding you even more appealing, girl! 🙂
Post # 7
No, I wouldn’t be concerned by this. I might be concerned about a drastic change in the other direction, but I highly doubt this is a problem.
Post # 8
@brideatbeach: Yup! Totally agree.
Post # 9
I wish I had this probllem lol.
Post # 10
@amorebella: the reverse is more worry-some
Post # 11
@amorebella: Maybe he’s just really excited to be getting married so soon! ^_^
Post # 12
Enjoy the hell out of it. My husband and I have a four month old. I fear we may never have sex again.
Post # 13
Stop over thinking it!
There are so many small things that it could be:
He has more energy now
He feels like it “just because”
He read something that fired him up
He ate certain foods which fired him up/gave him more energy
He just thinks you look sexy 😉
Just go with it 🙂