Post # 1
My fiance and I started dating in 2008 and both of us had planned on waiting until we were married to make love. After a year we pretty much knew we wanted to be together forever but we still decided that due to our Christian beliefs we should wait to make love until we were married. Well this past Christmas we both started to have a change of heart and very much opened up to the idea of soon making love. On New Years Eve after attending a party with friends we finally made love and it was amazing. Two days before Valentines Day we became engaged and I am so looking forward to being with him forever. We now make love about two nights per week but decided not to live together until marriage. We have no regrets and are very happy about our relationship. Has anyone else experienced such a change of heart?
Post # 3
No – I haven’t personally, but my Fiance wasn’t exactly pro pre marital sex – although he wasn’t anti it either, but in the end we just come together
Post # 4
I did! I really wanted to wait, and Fiance wasn’t so excited about it, but he just wanted to be with me. We waited almost 5 years before having sex. Finally, I decided that the most important thing was just that I only sleep with one man my whole life, and he was it as long as he could commit to that. It was just too long to wait–if several things had gone differently with our careers etc we might have been able to marry sooner and make it to the wedding night, but it wasn’t possible. I just couldn’t resist his love any longer. I explained all that to him, and a few months later he said he was able to promise me that he would propose. 6 months later, he did!
We had great regular sex for abut 16 months before we stopped. We haven’t done it since April, and now we’re waiting for the wedding night!
Post # 5
Aww this is lovely! i was in a very similar situation but i came to the descision that i know in my heart he is the only man for me so there was no point in waiting any longer! we are so happy together and the sex just makes everything better! im glad i changed my mind, no regrets! although we are planning on leaving it a while with no sex untill the wedding night just to spice things up!