(Closed) Change of personality, post-engagement?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
4546 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I noticed one in my husband, then Fiance. I don’t know exactly what it was but it was like he was more committed somehow. I don’t know how to explain it, because he was always committed to our relationship. He started talking more about children, our future, etc.

Post # 4
177 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

While we’re not officially transitioned into betrothal land; my SO has changed a bit since we decided to get married.  (I’m just waiting for the ring and the official questions)  He tells me he loves me quite frequently and has started talking about the future comfortably.  In the beginning he was one of those guys that would turn green with the mention of marriage or children.  

Post # 5
5095 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Nope!  No change at all, actually. But we were together for 6 years pre-engagement, so it would be pretty surprising if anything changed.

Post # 6
1480 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I’ve noticed that he’s a lot more snuggly and affectionate in general. It’s similar to what Treasure43 said, he seems more committed. When we bicker or argue, we’re better about trying to calm down and work out a solution. We talk about kids and our future a lot more. I guess finally getting engaged actually took a lot of the pressure and stress OFF our relationship, which is not something either of us expected!

Post # 7
5388 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@jayce: I noticed that too! He has always been great to me, but it seems like he is even better. Like we are closer (I can’t really explain it).

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