Change the date or not?

posted 2 weeks ago in Relationships
Post # 2
68 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2020

Sorry your post isn’t very clear. What are you asking, whether you should still marry your boyfriend? We need more info. 

Post # 4
431 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2020

Are you asking whether you should change your anniversary date? Or are you wanting to know whether you should say you have dated for 1 yr instead of 5 yrs?

Both are personal decisions that really depend on what you and your boyfriend think.
If it’s the second one you are wondering about then I would say you have been dating on and off for nearly 6 years.

Post # 6
2694 posts
Sugar bee

This sounds very highschool. No one else will care about the date but you. Not a big deal whether you change it or not.

Post # 7
1276 posts
Bumble bee

You were broken up for a month? I wouldn’t share the on and off part if somebody asks how long you have been together. It doesn’t make a difference and nobody really cares. Also you dating someone for a week doesn’t make a difference. If you would have broken up for years then I’d start over. But as pp said, only one that cares is you and there are no rules. Therefore you can count however you want to.

Post # 8
8531 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

Abby4 :  If you mean keep your dating anniversary date then I would say no if you broke up and dated other people but you don’t have to tell people that, and also, without sounding mean, no one else but you two will care about the date. 

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