- 8 years ago
- Wedding: November 2012
My fi have the same situation whereby our father’s have remarried, so I’m always saying “I spoke to my dad and stepmumsname today…” and he says the same.
So we’d never call each other’s stepmothers “mum” and we usually say “are we seeing your dad” when we refer to the others. However, I would like to start calling fi’s dad “dad” since I think it’s sweet. I call his sister, my sister and his brother my brother.
You know? I think it’s a personal choice, but if you’re a bit stuck at the moment just ask them. They’ll either say they don’t mind or they’ll say they’d rather you kept it as it is. They won’t disown you! 🙂