(Closed) Changing my e-ring setting – My story

posted 6 years ago in Rings
Post # 2
893 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I think your ring is gorgeous as-is.

Post # 3
1610 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Cape May

I think everything your feeling is pretty normal as I went through similar emotions during my reset. I bet you will love the new look and finding wedding band hunting easier is a sure bet. A year later I still love my reset and it feels like it was always my engagement ring, much more than the first setting. Props to your Fiance for being do supportive and understanding on finding your perfect ring! 

Post # 4
10569 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

Can’t wait to see your new setting!!

Post # 5
379 posts
Helper bee

As far as I’m concerned, though I do believe the engagement ring and the wedding band should look together, I would never change my ering with any other ring in the world. I live in Italy and here we think the wedding band is a symbol rather than a piece of jewelry. Most brides who think their rings don’t make a nice match simply wear their ering on their right hand.

It seems to me that in America you have a different view of wedding/engagement rings, but I’m not judging you, just noticing how big and varied the world is. Do what you think is best for you, because you’ll have to wear your rings daily for the rest of your life, so you should feel 100% happy and comfortable with them. 

Post # 6
741 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

Looking forward to seeing the end result.

Post # 7
764 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

Can’t wait to see the end result! 

Post # 8
4639 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

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mexicalijennie:  I think your post is so helpful and it is great to see how other bees think. My husband doesn’t mind me getting my ring reset at all. I have had 2 upgrades and 1 reset in the 3 years we have been married. So me might say that I am spoiled or materiaistic but it has been a evolution to find out what I want. 

I am so glad you got your reset and are loving it. Do you think you will upgrade or reset after this?

Post # 9
50 posts
Worker bee

Looking forward to seeing the final version!

Post # 10
479 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2014 - Monte Carlo inn

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mexicalijennie:  I’m so happy for you! I can’t wait to see how it will look with the halo! It’s really wonderful that your Fiance is on board with you. I’m also getting my ring upgraded and reset soon too!

Post # 11
355 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2002

If both you and your fiance are totally fine with a reset/upgrade I don’t think there is anything wrong with it.  I have had a few upgrades and a reset in the years that I have been married after my orignal ering was stolen.  My hubby doesn’t mind as long as I am happy and have a ring on my finger! 

Can’t wait to see your ring when you get it back!

  • This reply was modified 5 years, 10 months ago by  MrsKBee.
Post # 12
1529 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I think you have to be happy with your ring and from you’ve said, you Fiance is fine with it. Your tears when taking in your original ERing tells of the struggle you had in your decision.

You thought this through and it’s the right thing for both you and your Fiance. I think this is something to celebrate!

Post # 13
4251 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2009

Thanks for sharing your story!  I have not reset my original diamond from my original set because I still have that attachment to it.  Even though I no longer wear it and actually don’t love how it looks, lol.  So I get feeling a bit sad, but I think you will love your new set!  And your Fiance can reprose and make it special for you.  I feel just as attached to my upgrade now, and it means just as much to my DH as it does to me.  🙂

Post # 14
3384 posts
Sugar bee

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mexicalijennie:  Aww, don’t feel guilty!  Your Fiance wants you to be happy and love the ring, since you’ll have it forever 🙂  I can’t wait to see how it looks on Friday — you will have to post pictures for us! 

Post # 15
22 posts

I changed my setting too!original setting


New setting

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