Changing my mind and postponing the date!

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: June 2019

Hey there! I’m an Alabama bride-to-be as well. My fiancé and I took and engagement trip to the Smokies, so I’m familiar with some of the places you’ve mentioned.

 

I completely understand your disappointment- and your fiancé’s, but I personally think that waiting is a good decision. It sounds like you could use some time to yourself to get your vision solidified. It is much easier to hear other people out when you have a good idea of what you want. 

 

I am also not going to pretend to be an expert, but I think finishing college first is an excellent idea. Enjoy your last bit of college and celebrate that accomplishment. 

Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper

Your wedding should be what you and your fi want. Stop taking/listening to suggestions from other people. Ask him what he wants. Go from there.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper

You sound very young. I would wait until your education was complete. 

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

Do what you want and what’s best for you. I know you’re a people pleaser, but you have to please yourself, too. Talk to your Fiance and see what he wants. If he was excited to get married before you graduate, then you should take that into consideration. All the ideas you mentioned sound wonderful, but do what you need to do to be happy. 

As for waiting on graduation. Once again, do what you and Fiance feel is best. Don’t listen to someone who says you won’t finish, or that it’s too soon. You have nothing to prove to anyone and if you and Fiance are ready to start your lives as a married couple, then do it. If you guys feel you need to wait, then do it. 

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