- 2 years ago
- Wedding: December 2020
We got engaged on may 16th 2018. And as you read this…know that I am a big people pleaser. I love everyone to be happy. It’s also easy to change my mind. I originally wanted to wait until after college to marry him. BUT my dad changed my mind. He was giving me ideas like getting married in the Bahamas and I loved it! until I kept thinking about it and I wanted family members there so I decided that will be our honeymoon. My Maid/Matron of Honor talked about myrtle beach and i thought that was a good idea. Then dad gave me another idea about getting married in Gatlinburg Tennessee with the mountains. Loved the idea and started planning with that and told everyone… then my mom gave me her ideas and opinions and I did like them and decided to change it again. So instead..on our 1 year marriage anniversary, we will go to Gatlinburg together. So then mom suggested venues in Alabama (where we live) and showing me places that were out of the budget. I had to say no to that. BUT then my sister in law found one within budget. SO I fell in love with it. I planned my whole wedding website around each of these venues. Then my aunt sent me venues to check out and my dad sent more. I’m pretty sure I’ve been giving everyone whiplash. SO I decided to start over. OBVIOUSLY, I don’t know what I want. So now I want to wait until I at least transfer to a university(I’m in community college now) might be around a year or two. But my fiance is kinda upset and so am I. I’ve been so excited and planning for so long..my hopes got up. But at least I’ll have college under my belt and have time to think about it privately. Mainly I won’t have to listen to opinions for a while so I can plan with my fiance by ourselves. Its just become too much but I am really crushed about it. What do you think? I also heard if you get married before you finish college, you’re more likely to quit? I have been hearing that from family members too.