(Closed) Changing the date to when my MOH is out of the country???

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
314 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

It’s really hard to offer suggestions because we don’t know what your limitations are and if there might be other ways to finesse the dates.

Post # 4
124 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

Could you move the date and still use the summer to do things? There would still be things you couldn’t do until the end (e.g. seating charts, if you do them), but I had an 18 month engagement and I was able to knock out a lot of things pretty far in advance.

Post # 5
2781 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Ooh I feel for you. We had to go through something similar and move the date up a year. But by that point I had already asked my best friend to be Maid/Matron of Honor and she lives in Spain, in addition most of my family live in Australia or elsewhere in Europe. I just had to contact them all and explain the situation and hope they could still make it. Ultimately we had to move the date to accommodate us and it works out better for us this way – and though I’d love for all my friends and family to be there it was never going to be an option anyways so we’re just going to hope that those who really want to be there will be able to figure themselves out. 

So if I were you I’d move the date up and then call your friend and talk to her about it, say that you’d love for her to be there but you’ve moved the date up for XYZ reasons and you hope that she’ll still be able to make it. But that’s just how I feel about it.

Hope you sort something out!

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