(Closed) Changing Wedding Party?? Help!

posted 6 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 3
3697 posts
Sugar bee

@VermontBride13:  You might try framing it this way: “We were wondering if maybe being in the wedding party was too much of an imposition on you right now, and we wanted to let you know that if you feel like you need to bow out, it’s okay, we’d understand and we won’t be upset.”

Post # 4
69 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I ditto the previous poster. That would be the most simple way. Give him a chance to get out while implying that you feel something wrong. 

Post # 5
581 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I unfortunately had a similar problem with my Maid/Matron of Honor early on.  I confronted her last year saying it seemed as if she wasn’t very supportive and didn’t seem to have the time.  She apologized and completely changed her tune.  She let me know recently that she was extremely depressed last year.  Maybe something has happened in his life to make him act this way?

My sister-in-law actually had to “fire” her Maid/Matron of Honor.  She was jealous and was more concerned about criticizing everything.  She didn’t come to the wedding.  She turned up a few months later engaged to a man she just met.

Post # 6
914 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@KCKnd2 Very good answer. To the point and tactful.

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