Member- MsYankee
- 3 years ago
- Wedding: May 2014
To make a long story short, DH and I were TTC this month, and were geared up to BD every other day during FW week – but DH got “stage fright” and although we had sex 3 times, he only actually “finished” the first time, and couldn’t the other two times (he said he was having jitters re: the TTC, mental block if you will, and requested that I just initiate next month during FW instead of letting him know specifics). We BDd on CD11, had sex but no “finish” from DH on CD13 and CD14 and O’d on CD17. So I thought this month we are completely out, we’ll try next month.
I’ve still been temping, and this morning (7dpo) I had a sharp dip in my temp (96.86 from 97.25) and I had spotting. I freaked out thinking it was AF already, but it wasn’t red and only when I wiped (Sorry if TMI) and not at all like AF. Also, I’m 32, and besides when I had the Mirena put in and had weird spotting and stuff until I adjusted to it, I have NEVER spotted except during AF in my life.
So now this all has me thinking. I also had EXTREMELY sore boobs and nipples, for about 5 days but that was around O time so I chalked it up to that. I dreamt I was pregnant at about 2dpo, and again, chalked it up to just us having a bad TTC month. I’ve also been very emotional – crying at commercials, YouTube videos (not sappy ones, otherwise funny ones) and don’t get me started on watching Ellen give away stuff to people on her show who did something heroic/are in need – I bawled). Didn’t think twice about any of this though, until today.
Has anyone had a dip, spotting and some “symptoms” and wasn’t pregnant? I just don’t see how we could be without DH finishing (I know it’s physically possible but it seems highly unlikely) and with the timing this month. Just curious though, because when I google this stuff it seems most people with all of this together end up getting BFP.
We’d be ecstatic if we are, but we’re not expecting anything and in light of everything I’m not saying anything to DH unless I was to get a BFP.
Any insight would be appreciated!
I’ve attached my Kindara chart:
